Serve, Then Ask · 5 of 9
Pray first, then call
Honor the request before you pitch.
By the time an event ends, your team usually has a small stack of forms — names, phone numbers, and a few lines in someone’s own handwriting about what’s actually going on in their life. What happens to that stack in the next few days matters as much as the event itself.
On your knees before you’re on the phone
Before anyone dials a single number, the names go to prayer. Not a general prayer over the pile — by name, out loud, one at a time, each request read the way the person wrote it. This is not a formality that delays the real work. It is the real work starting. A follow-up call made without prayer covering is just a phone call. A follow-up call made after real intercession is something else entirely, and the person on the other end can usually tell the difference, even if they couldn’t explain how.
Some teams treat this step as optional because it doesn’t show up on any spreadsheet. It is the opposite of optional — it is the part of the pipeline that decides whether everything after it is spiritual work or just logistics wearing spiritual clothes.
Let the call honor what they already said
When the call finally happens, resist the urge to lead with your agenda. The first thing out of your mouth is not “would you like to learn to study the Bible.” It is a reminder of what they already trusted you with: “This is María, from the clinic on Saturday. You mentioned you were worried about your son — I wanted to check in and let you know we’ve been praying for him.”
That’s the whole first two minutes. Ask how it’s going. Actually listen to the answer. Only after the person feels heard does the door open naturally for the next question — and often, because you honored the smaller thing first, they open it themselves.
Don’t let openness go cold
A name and a prayer request sitting untouched for three weeks is a door slowly closing. The moment someone hands you their honesty, it has a shelf life — the feeling that made them write “my son is sick” instead of leaving the line blank does not last forever, and neither does their memory of exactly who your team was and why they trusted you. Call within days, not weeks. If your team cannot call that fast, it needs fewer names collected and more people praying and calling, not the other way around.
James wrote about exactly this kind of prayer — not a wish sent up in general, but a specific request carried by someone willing to act on it:
Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. — James 5:16 (OTB)
Prayer that works is prayer that is followed by a phone call.
Recite this
Prayer covering first. Every name, before every call.
Try it this week
Find the most recent stack of names or requests your ministry has collected — even if it’s been sitting for a while.
I will pray by name over every one of them, and make the calls, by ________________.
Scripture quotations are from the Open Translation Bible (OTB), used under CC BY-SA 4.0.
Practice this chapter
Run a short Discovery Bible Study on this passage — everything this chapter taught, on a real one.