From Sleepy to Disciple-Making · 9 of 10

Year two and year three

What it actually looks like.

Say this to yourself before you say it to anyone else: this takes years, not months. I have watched church leaders start strong, expect a year-one result by month four, and quietly give up right before the slow part turned. Let me offer you a shape for what the years can look like — offered as counsel from what I have seen, not as a schedule you should hold your church to.

A plausible shape, held loosely

Year one is small on purpose: your own group, and a handful of willing people you have walked through Model, Assist, Watch, and Launch. Most of what you are producing this year is stories and trust, not numbers worth reporting yet.

Year two usually brings the first visible shifts — a class or two has actually converted its format, and if God is kind, your first second-generation group appears: a member of your original circle has started their own. That single group is worth more celebration than anything you have announced from the pulpit all year.

Year three, for churches where this has taken root, the new scoreboard has started to feel normal. Nobody introduces the four numbers with an explanation anymore. Nobody calls any of it a program. It has become, simply, how your church talks about growth.

Nothing in what we teach fixes this timetable

I need to be honest with you here: nothing in what we teach fixes this timetable. It is counsel, drawn from what I have watched happen in some churches, not a promise about yours. Your congregation may move faster than this. It may move much slower. Some churches need five years to reach what I have called year three. That is not failure. That is your field, and only God knows what it needs.

I planted, Apollos watered, but it was God who caused the growth. — 1 Corinthians 3:6 (OTB)

Read that as a relief, not a caution. The timetable was never yours to control in the first place.

Signs you’re moving, and signs you’ve only added a program

You are actually moving if people you didn’t personally recruit start telling their own stories, if a group starts without you in the room, if someone asks a question you didn’t plant. You have only added a program if attendance in the new thing depends entirely on your enthusiasm, if nobody outside your closest circle can explain why you’re doing this, or if the moment you stop pushing, it stops moving.

The month when nothing is happening

There will be a month, maybe several, when nothing visible is happening at all. No new groups, no new stories, just the same handful doing the same quiet, faithful thing. Do not read that as failure. Keep leading your own group. Keep asking the questions. Seeds underground look exactly like nothing, for exactly as long as they need to.

Recite this

I planted, Apollos watered, but it was God who caused the growth.

Try it this week

Write down, honestly, which year you are actually in — not which year you wish you were in.

I will keep doing the next small thing, even without visible fruit, until ________________.

Scripture quotations are from the Open Translation Bible (OTB), used under CC BY-SA 4.0.

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